Ahh. Such a loaded question.
I’ve heard that you shouldn’t actually meet your idols; that it often brings disappointment. You have an idea of them, and who they are. Your expectation might not align with how they actual are. But if they were sure to come, who cares, right?
I’ve never been too much of a “STAN” for anyone in particular. Sure, I like artists and directors and everyone in between, but I never had the impression that I would actually meet any of them, let alone invite them to dinner. I’ve seen too many street interviews where people meet celebrities and you can tell they don’t want to be bothered. I can’t blame them, either. But, that does come with the territory of being a celebrity, does it not?
My list would probably be as follows:
Mac Miller: a musician, dreamer, lover of life, optimistic. His style of music transitioned over time as he grew older. Started off rapping about partying, girls, alcohol, etc.; the typical beginning. As time went on, he went through darker times; losing friends, break ups, etc. His music was a direct reflection of that, and he produced songs that make you feel emotions other than excitement.
Quentin Tarantino: a director, writer, actor, a cynic/realist. I’ve heard that he can be a straight up asshole, but I still think there is much to unravel and learn. Unconventional, direct, and persistent, he demands a lot from himself, his movies, along with the actors/actresses in them.
Adam Sandler: a director, writer, actor, comedian. Who doesn’t want to interact with Adam Sandler? Dude’s made millions over the years and he STILL dresses like his mom just asked him to help bring in groceries from the car. Golden retriever energy.
Jordan Jensen: comedian/podcaster. A rising comedian who is taking the internet by storm, Jordan is being labeled as the female Louis C.K. Someone who says their impulsive thoughts out loud to the audience with perfect timing and delivery.
I wouldn’t lead or organize the conversations, just letting them happen organically. No interviews, no list of questions, nothing. Just a nice dinner with a small group of people who have experienced much more than I have, hoping to learn a thing or two by being in their presence.
What are your thoughts on the matter?